The reasons to homeschool your kids becomes more and more evident each day. This time, multiple teachers at an elementary school in Texas are accused of giving young children “sleepy stickers.” Here is a link to an article: cbsaustin
Apparently, the mother of a 4-year-old only found out because her daughter snuck it home after school explaining to her mom that the “sticker makes her fall asleep.”
This isn’t the first time it has happened, and it probably isn’t the only place it’s happening. In fact, something like this was also found out to be happening last year as well! Teacher resigns after giving melatonin…
Yikes! Check in with your kiddies and make sure they aren’t being secretly medicated!
127 Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.
2 It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.
3 Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.
Anyone may see, how electronics (via the prince of the power of the air) have captured the hearts and minds of an entire generation. A well stocked home library can effectively stem that evil tide! And via garage sales and thrift stores, the home library can be filled to the brim with books for every member of the family. Truly, the warm pages of a book are far superior and more intimate than a Kindle or lap top.
Our local Salvation Army has paperback books at two for $.99. And absolutely free – children’s books and Bibles. Hardback books are $1.99, and some are truly nice. I also have picked up many sheet music books (barely used) at the same price they charge for paperbacks.
Findings published in the journal Social Science Researchshow that raising a child in a home filled with books positively impacts her future academic growth and job attainment. Specifically, asPacific Standard reported, the study found that when it comes to standardized tests, “Regardless of how many books the family already has, each addition to the home library helps children do better.” That makes sense: A book-filled home encourages a culture of reading for enjoyment and talking about books.
A growing body of evidence shows that growing up with home libraries boosts adult literacy, adult numeracy (math skills), and adult technological competence, with the greatest returns to the growth in smaller home libraries. In other words, adding just a few books to your home library can make a big difference.
Going from no books at home to some books at home. Going from some books to a few more. This is doable! That’s what we’re doing at BookGive all the time.
In this study, the researchers found that growing up with almost no books was associated with literacy levels at about 50% below average. Having at least 80 books raised the literacy levels to average. Once a home library hits the 300 range, the literary gains are not significant, although we’d never discourage folks from surrounding themselves with lots of books.
Our home library is significantly smaller now that our family has grown up and out, but we still feel that books are the gateway to knowledge. Some of my personal books are so well loved, they are more tape than paper… My sewing books are in the sewing room, cookbooks are in the kitchen, and and gardening books are all in a corner shelf near the piano. A full set of encyclopedias is stowed on a very high shelf in the linen closet. Because you never know!
The time you spend reading to and with your children, will be remembered with far greater clarity than any cartoons or games children play.
My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee; So that incline thine ear unto wisdom, And apply thine heart to understanding; Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, And liftest up thy voice for understanding; If thou seekest her as silver, And searchest for her as for hid treasures; Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, And find the knowledge of God.
As is so often the case – scientists are studying God’s Creation- and applying it to modern technology. Until recently – it was a mystery, just how geckos were able to cling so easily to even the smoothest surfaces, and still be able to maneuver around on the same surface. But now – the fascinating truth is discovered!
Even though gecko toe pads adhere strongly to almost any surface, they can peel off of those surfaces quickly. That’s because the pads have tiny hair-like projections made from the tough protein keratin that can only be seen at incredibly strong magnification. If the geckos’ feet and tiny keratin fibers got dirty, that sticky interaction wouldn’t work, making them instantly vulnerable to predators.
In an effort to find out how geckos keep their feet clean, researchers based at the University of Akron (UA) found that phospholipids, which are special kinds of thin oils, are manufactured and excreted to keep the keratin hairs clean and serve as the temporary contact adhesive between geckos’ toes and the surface on which they’re walking. (Brian Thomas, M.S.)
Scientists have already taken advantage of the phospholipids, and are synthesizing adhesives with great potential for formerly unheard of applications.
For by Him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by Him, and for Him.
Colossians 1: 16
For the invisible things of Him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse.
The past three hints have been a rough idea on how to squeeze it all into your day without losing it! Our next topic is the ever popular field-trip, and some ideas for making the most of it. One of the great advantages a home-schooling family has, is the freedom to adjust schedules.
If you have a zoo within reasonable driving distance, consider purchasing an annual family pass. Our zoo included parking with our pass, as well as entry into other zoos around the country.
Science and history museums also offer annual passes, with similar reciprocal entry to related venues.
State parks offer an annual car pass, usually consisting of a vinyl, dated sticker for your windshield.
Our home school had a field trip every month. By watching the weather closely – we would cancel school for that day – and go to the zoo! By taking our field trips during the week, we were able to avoid large weekend crowds. On nicer field trip days – we visited an outdoor interest. During brutal winter weeks, we still took a field trip, but spent the day roaming around a museum. I will stress, that our field trip schedule was never scheduled. Sometimes, the kids would wake up, and while they were eating breakfast – I would announce it.
If you are following an accredited curriculum, the missed school day will need to be made up for. Our schedule from A Beka Academy allowed for a large block of vacation time during December. I would shave days from that block of time, and use it for field trips. I discovered that if we had too much time off in December, it was too hard to get back in the swing of things.
If we brought lunch from home (almost always) we would get a treat like ice cream, or something from the historic bakery at the museum. The scene above is from the Shedd Aquarium in Chicago.
Don’t overlook large outdoor museums, usually consisting of historic buildings. Often the employees and docents are well versed in the lore of times past, and will regale any children you have that are willing to listen!
The image above is from the Henry Ford Greenfield Village Museum in Michigan.
Important field-trip tips to remember:
One field trip a month
Watch the weather
Watch the runny noses! No fun going anywhere unless everyone is feeling well.
Spontaneity can add to the experience and reduce stress. If I told them ahead of time we were going – and something went wrong (ie: one waking up with a sore throat, severe weather) there would be disappointed faces all day.
If you bring lunch from home, allowing the kids a treat from the venue will quiet any quests for the other stuff. It’s a kind of bribery, but heck – it works!! And can save a heap of money over buying lunch out. Especially teen and preteen boys can eat so much, you could regret taking them anywhere!!!
By buying annual memberships to places you like to go, it will save money and the necessity of budgeting every month for the field trip. The annual passes are always a better deal over individual ticket prices.
In spring, we often opted for the metro-park, which had a farm.
Babies everywhere!
She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
Our home school has always had pets. We actually had pets before any children came along – so from their infancy animals were a constant presence. Children and pets – a match made in heaven. . .
Pets can be a valuable “spring-board” for many home school adventures! In addition – kids can learn responsibility for another living creature. Pets can help human beings, who come into this world as completely self-centered selfish creatures, to grow into mature, dependable individuals.
A pet can be the basis of a writing project. Any composition, book report or research paper will be enhanced by the child’s interest in their pet.
Pets (particularly dogs) will a be great ally in enforcing schedules.
Recalcitrant nappers can change into the most eager sleepers if allowed to nap with a pet.
Measuring food and counting treats are excellent for teaching basic math.
Developing and making home made dog biscuits is a great project.
Growing “cat grass” and sunflowers (for seeds) is a good botany/biology project.
Pets can reduce test time stress simply by being there.
Pets can console kids (and adults) that are feeling down.
When kids are home with pets all day – no one gets lonely – kids or pets.
My kids very often had a cat on their laps or desks, and a dog at their feet all day during school.
As they get older, the pet may stimulate the child to work at an animal shelter, or even pursue a career in human or animal sciences. The benefits of home schooling with pets are too numerous to cover here, but every study shows that caring for and living with pets makes us better, healthier people all around.
What about outdoor pets? Positioning a bird feeder outside the window where you have your home school, can be a constant source of delight – no matter what the kid’s ages are. Keeping field guides and binoculars at the ready will spur kids to look for identifying marks, and triumphant cries of delight will be heard when the correct identification is made.
The feeder(s) can be an excellent exercise in record keeping and charting comparisons of most desirable seeds. Unsprayed lawns will have even more birds and critters, as well as insects to study. Dandelions can be picked in heaps for pet guinea pigs to eat.
In cold winter areas – home made suet cakes are a good science project, and again – a good basis for experimentation. Do downy woodpeckers like suet or peanut butter better? Oilers or stripers? (sunflower seeds) Writing it down and illustrating it involves all the areas of school – art, math, language skills, science, and history. Bird calls have been used as the basis of some great classical music and poetry – such as ‘The Lark Ascending,’ by Ralph Vaughan Williams, which was inspired by a poem by George Meridith.
To A Skylark
O skylark! I see thee and call thee joy! Thy wings bear thee up to the breast of the dawn; I see thee no more, but thy song is still The tongue of the heavens to me!
Thus are the days when I was a boy; Sweet while I lived in them, dear now they’re gone: I feel them no longer, but still, O still They tell of the heavens to me.
–George Meredith–
2 Praise the Lord with harp: sing unto Him with the psaltery and an instrument of ten strings.3 Sing unto Him a new song; play skilfully with a loud noise.4 For the Word of the Lord is right; and all His works are done in truth.5 He loveth righteousness and judgment: the earth is full of the goodness of the Lord.
By far and away, the number one stated objection and obstacle to home schooling is the perceived idea of “socialization.” Anyone contemplating or actively home schooling has encountered this phenomena. Often a relative or friend will pucker their foreheads, and ask -”But what about socialization?” Where oh where did this concept originate? The Public School System! That’s right! Socialization and “self concept” are psycho-babble inventions of the government pagan shrines known as public schools.
“. . . self-esteem is a concept that was born in the school system, and it is best for parents not to overemphasize the self-esteem of their children. Professor Martin E.P. Seligman, in his helpful book The Optimistic Child, discusses how self-esteem has been more and more emphasized in schools during precisely the same years that the youth suicide rate has increased in the United States. [learninfreedom.org]
From Dr. Larry Edward Shyers research – “using a “blind” procedure, found that home-schooled children had significantly fewer problem behaviors, as measured by the Child Observation Checklist’s Direct Observation Form, than traditionally schooled children when playing in mixed groups of children from both kinds of schooling backgrounds. This observational study was reported in some detail in the 1992 Associated Press article. Shyers concluded that the hypothesis that contact with adults, rather than contact with other children, is most important in developing social skills in children is supported by these data.” [ibid]
IN THE PUBLIC SCHOOL SYSTEM, CHILDREN ARE SOCIALIZED HORIZONTALLY, AND TEMPORARILY, INTO CONFORMITY WITH THEIR IMMEDIATE PEERS. HOME EDUCATORS SEEK TO SOCIALIZE THEIR CHILDREN VERTICALLY, TOWARD RESPONSIBILITY, SERVICE, AND ADULTHOOD, WITH AN EYE ON ETERNITY.
[Thomas C. Smedly, MS]
I could regale you with countless statistics, opinions, research, and true life stories to counter the negative claims about home school socialization, but I will restrict myself to just this very meaningful one, from former U.S. Department of Education researcher, Patricia Lines:
If I didn’t know anything about someone other than their [sic] educational background, I’d rather hop in a foxhole with a homeschool kid than one from a public school. The homeschool kid will be a little better educated and dependable. It’s just the law of averages. [The Harsh Truth About Public Schools, Bruce N. Shortt, p. 350]
Homeschoolers do not claim the title for close family relationships, but in my experience, I have never seen a severed family relationship in a homeschool family. But I do know many, many non-homeschool parents that have children they don’t speak to, or children that don’t speak to each other, or both. If I could just let you experience some of the silly giggling (laughing at themselves or something we were reading) that went on during our years and years of home school – you would pray that every child in the world could be home schooled within a loving family, instead of being daily subjected to insecure teachers, peer pressure, indoctrination, and academic discrepancies.
Will your children be considered “unusual” or even strange by their worldly counterparts? Probably. Does that matter? Not in the long run. There is a distinct difference between positive and negative socialization. If you make an effort to involve your kids in 4H, a home school activity club, etc., they will undoubtedly meet other “unusual” home schoolers.
IF KIDS FROM GODLESS PUBLIC SCHOOLS ARE NORMAL, I SUGGEST THAT YOU AND YOUR CRITICS SHOULD BE DELIGHTED THAT YOUR KIDS ARE WEIRD. SINCE GOD WAS REMOVED FROM PUBLIC SCHOOLS IN 1963:
Violent crime has increased 995%
Premarital sex has increased 1,000% in 15 year olds, 300% in 16-18 year olds
Suicide has increased 300%
Rather than self-esteem, the home school family is concerned with God-esteem.
Jesus first, others second, me last.
Even a two year old can memorize that. . .
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My go-to, super easy, lifesaving recipe for barbecue chicken!
1. Spray inside of crock with cooking spray
2. Slice one onion and place in bottom of crock.
3. Put boneless, skinless chicken breast halves on top of onions
4. Pour some barbecue sauce on chicken pieces
5. Cook on low for 6-8 hours, or high 4-5 hours.
Everyone loves this, even little ones. You can also substitute sweet and sour sauce with excellent results. If you are fortunate enough to own two crock pots, throw some baking potatoes in the second crock , and you will have the perfect side for the barbecue chicken! If you like tender skins, wrap in foil, if you like them crusty, sans foil. Exact same cooking times as chicken. I served this barbecue chicken at my daughter’s rehearsal dinner, and it received rave reviews from young and old. There is nothing like long, slow cooking to bring out the best flavor. In addition – very low energy consumption!
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14 For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
15 Of Whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named,
16 That He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might by His Spirit in the inner man. . .
The Vine Vigil 